The Gruffalo and I attended a charity luncheon and fashion
show in Del Mar this past weekend.
The event was for the benefit of TACA, which stands for
“Talk About Curing Autism”. The speakers included one of the founders of the
organization as well as a mother who talked about her family’s journey so far.
I can’t begin to understand what people go through when they are living with a
family member on the spectrum, but I deeply empathize with any parent who
is struggling to provide his or her child with the type of life that every
child deserves.
Before & after the luncheon various vendors had tables
set up outside the ballroom. The Gruffalo was a huge help in setting up my table and adjusting the props so that everything was displayed beautifully. He also helped me chat up the shoppers who came by my table, which represents one of the many ways that our relationship is filled with wonderful synergy. I can produce jewelry designs all day long but I am pretty shy about promoting myself and not very much of a salesperson. The Gruffalo, on the other hand, is amazingly good at sales and very, very charming. He is not shy at all about telling a woman that she should buy the necklace that she has draped around her neck or helping someone try on a bracelet that they are admiring.
We met some wonderful, hard-working women who
have started their own companies and are using this sort of event to grow their
business. Many of the women who were selling their products are raising
children who are on the autism spectrum. Traditional 9-to-5 office jobs are
mostly out of the question for caregivers in this situation so these
women have built other ways to provide family income.
The fashion show was staged by representatives of Jockey Person to Person. Yes, it is the underwear company and, no, it was not a lingerie show. This line includes all types of clothing and the models included Jockey reps, mothers of kids with autism and a young woman who is herself on the spectrum. Everyone on the runway looked gorgeous and worked that catwalk like the sassy, amazing women they are . Plus I really, REALLY want the leather-look pencil skirt in the fall/winter line. (This last line is brought to you by blatant holiday gift hint-dropping directed at any family members who may be reading.)
I will post photos of other finshed pieces from this event in later blog posts,
however I wanted to acknowledge TACA and salute the good work that they do
in this post.
Once I confirmed my vendor registration for this show I made three necklaces with a puzzle piece
focal. The puzzle piece represents autism awareness (in the same way that
various colored ribbons symbolize various causes). The way that this condition
manifests is often a vast, confusing, shifting and interrelated array of symptoms with various degrees of associated
impairment. Individuals on the spectrum can make great improvements in their
cognitive and motor abilities, but there can also be mysterious and sudden
declines. The medical community (and, for that matter, the public at large) has
an ever-shifting understanding of the spectrum. Families often become
frustrated in their efforts to seek answers and help. The purpose of TACA is
for families with autism to support other families with autism.
The necklace is a single charm on a silver-tone chain that
has been embroidered with seed beads and crystals.
Special thanks are due here to my daughter, Smallest of All, who designed my logo and helped me prepare signs and price tags before the show, samples of which you can see in this photo.
I donated one of the three necklaces to the raffle and sold
the other two. If I had make 10 necklaces I could have sold all of them. A
woman came to my table before the luncheon and told me “I put all of my tickets
in your bag and I am going to win your necklace”. She was indeed the winner. Congratulations!
I now owe TACA a check for a portion of the money that I
made from the charm necklaces that I sold, which I will gladly write and mail
off to the event organizer later today.
One of the banners in the ballroom demonstrated to me the combination of hope and feisty determination that I witnessed again and again at the benefit: All of the professionals tell us to send our son to an
institution. We’re hoping for Harvard.
To the organizers, vendors, family members and other attendees of the TACA event, my wish for you is recovery and that, one day, the final piece will slip into the puzzle.
